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Various factors played into this phenomenon which has yet to be identified in any other ethnic group.One being the crack epidemic of the ’80s that shifted many households from dual to single, another being the mass incarceration epidemic that followed shortly thereafter.And as we reviewed my list, one thing became clear, and that was that I had no business dating Black American men.The likelihood that we would waste each other’s time was almost built into the equation. Almost like I was turning my back on them if I agreed with these findings.

before selecting which university to attend, why wouldn’t an equally important personal commitment require just as much evaluation?If I wanted to make it work despite what the evidence stated, I could.And I wasn’t wrong, but marriage is challenging enough without marrying a project.It’s one thing to believe marriage is of no value whatsoever, it’s another thing for your opinion of marriage to shift based on who you’re dating at the time.Proving to be “wifey material” to a guy who doesn’t think much of the concept of a wife to begin with is as demeaning as it sounds and yet it’s a huge part of the dating experience for many Black American women.

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